What the Heck?!?

I found this stupid message in frienster, and i thought that i wasn't a very good piece of advice. ANd just to remember myself of that, i decided to put it here, so that i could see it and remind myself of how i thought things to be. Even when i grow older, I may change my concepts and views of life. But still I would want to know how I thought when I was 16. How I saw things from my perspective...

so, here's the message..

Every girl dreams that one day she will find a boy that does these things for her. Even the smallest action can have the BIGGEST impact in someones life.

• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
opinion: What the heck? Wats that for? its not like she doesnt have her own clothes!!!

• leave her cute text notes.
opinion: That's all fine and everything. But just be sure not to send the same things over and over again for years..it may start to get boring..seriously..

• kiss her in front of your friends.
opinion: It's fine with me..but don't make it look as if you are showing her off to your friends. She may start to feel uncomfortable and there goes your "perfect" relationship with her.

• tell her she is gorgeous..
opinion: only if it is true!! Honesty helps a lot to remain a stable relationship. But if she doesn't look gorgeous in your eyes, tell her that she is beautiful for what you like bout her.

• look into her eyes when you talk to her.
opinion: this i totally agree.. after all, it IS a form of respect..

• let her mess with your hair
opinion: hehe, I like to do that sometimes. (of course it has to be clean!!)

• touch her hair.
opinion: It okay..but just don't go to the extent like hz did..

• just walk around with her.
opinion: no opinion

• "FORGiVE HER FOR HER MiSTAKES"
opinion: that is a must. To quote, if you love her as much as you say you do, you must love her enough to forgive her for her mistakes..

• look at her like she`s the only one you see.
opinion: you are going to spoil that girl, dude. Its nice and sweet. Just don't overdo it.

• tickle her even when she says stop.
opnion: seriously, if she really meant stop, do that by all means, unless u are prepared to be ditched by her.

• hold her hand when you're around your friends.
opinion: no opinion.

• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
opinion: holy!! a good boyfriend shouldn't do that!! its just ridiculus..try understanding her problem instead of telling her u love her jz becaz she swore at u..

• let her fall asleep in your arms..
opinion: aww..tat's so sweet.. ^^

• get her mad, then kiss her.
opinion: stupid idea. What for break that happy moment by getting her mad? Boyfriends who do that are plain crazy and idiotic, i suggest all girls out there to ditch her boyfriend if he starts acting this way.. all this could lead to him abusing you.

• tease her and let her tease you back.
opinion: that's nice.

• stay up all night with her when she's sick.
opinion: Yeah, absolutely.

• watch her favorite movie with her.
opinion: of course. just make sure you don't fall asleep while accompanying her!!

• kiss her forehead.
opinion: no opinion.

• give her the world.
opinion: if you can do that, by all means do..but i doubt that..

• write her letters.
opinion: but don't get mad if she is too busy to write back.

• let her wear your clothes.
opinion: sharing is the most basic thing to remain that relationship.

• when she's sad, hang out with her.
opinion: but don't get her even more upset.

• let her know she's important.
opinion: well, tat's a must perhaps..but it depends..

• let her take all the photos she wants of you.
opinion: what's with the idea? completely brainless idea!!

• kiss her in the pouring rain.
opinion: just make sure she doesn't get wet and fall asick just because you wanted to act romantic.

• when you fall in love with her, tell her.
opinion: watever..

• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved someone before.
opinion: that's the whole point of telling her ain't it?

so you see..feeling's are generated not by advising someone else how to like a girl or a guy..
its actually how you feel for him or her that you actually want to protect her instinctively, make sure that she is happy and safe..

and always remember: Trying too hard to impress, DOESN'T impress at all!!